i'm new... need help

oneeightydegrees · 09-09-2005, 03:21 AM

salam

im new here and i need advice on my life as a muslim b/c i think im realy messn up. i realy duno where or how to start

***Prof*** · 09-09-2005, 03:37 AM

Wa alaikum assalaam,

Well you have already taken the first step by realizing that you need help. In this section (Seeking Naseeha), you will find some threads about improving in your faith. You should also remember that you should never despair as Allah is the All-Merciful. There is always time to repent and change. Do you have any specific issues you need to talk about? Also seeing that you are a sister, perhaps one of the other sisters on this forum may be willing to email/chat with you in private if you feel more comfortable with that.

I am extremely happy that you have come to this forum seeking help. I hope we can benefit you and you can benefit us. Welcome to the forums.

***Prof*** · 09-09-2005, 03:38 AM

You should also remember that there are plenty of good muslims (and Allah knows best what is in their hearts) that used to do every sin, major and minor, that you can imagine. People can change.

oneeightydegrees · 09-09-2005, 05:24 AM

wasalam

thanx.. u guys r prety nice so far

yeh my family thinks i hav depression or something. i dont get y they say that. so at least i admit theres somethings i do need help with but i dont admit im depressed. yah i gues i have specifc issues i gota talk about but i dono where to start n stuf. im here cuz no one knows me here i gues. or its the only place i found.

Catalyst · 09-09-2005, 01:03 PM

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Originally Posted by oneeightydegrees

wasalam

thanx.. u guys r prety nice so far

yeh my family thinks i hav depression or something. i dont get y they say that. so at least i admit theres somethings i do need help with but i dont admit im depressed. yah i gues i have specifc issues i gota talk about but i dono where to start n stuf. im here cuz no one knows me here i gues. or its the only place i found.

as-salaamu 'alaykum my sister,

Welcome sister

. Ok you need help, so please tell us more about exactly what kind of help you need so that we can help you inshaa'Allaah. Maybe you should post in the Muslimah section (Female section). Anyhow, if you give us the rough location of where you live, we may be able to locate for you some help.

Sister, remember the words of Allaah:

Quote:

يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُواْ اسْتَعِينُواْ بِالصَّبْرِ وَالصَّلاَةِ إِنَّ اللّهَ مَعَ الصَّابِرِينَ

153. O ye who believe! seek help with patient perseverance and prayer; for Allah is with those who patiently persevere.

Abu Muqatil · 09-09-2005, 03:41 PM

Ahlan bik may Allah make your affairs easy for you...

Rose15 · 09-09-2005, 03:48 PM

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Originally Posted by oneeightydegrees

wasalam

thanx.. u guys r prety nice so far

yeh my family thinks i hav depression or something. i dont get y they say that. so at least i admit theres somethings i do need help with but i dont admit im depressed. yah i gues i have specifc issues i gota talk about but i dono where to start n stuf. im here cuz no one knows me here i gues. or its the only place i found.

depression doesnt exist

what help was there for our mothers when they were going thru bad times?

did they fall to the floor and say i give up, im suffering

did they commit suicide?

No, they fought on to live another day

These days we all complain about this depression, unless ur a psycho

ur not depressed!

oneeightydegrees · 09-09-2005, 03:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Catalyst

as-salaamu 'alaykum my sister,

Welcome sister

. Ok you need help, so please tell us more about exactly what kind of help you need so that we can help you inshaa'Allaah. Maybe you should post in the Muslimah section (Female section). Anyhow, if you give us the rough location of where you live, we may be able to locate for you some help.

Sister, remember the words of Allaah:

wasalam

thanx

. u guys have a female section? where is it?

and thanx for the ayaah

n thanx abumuqatil, ameen.

hi rose15.. ur rite, i agree with u completly but othrs dont agree much with me

Catalyst · 09-09-2005, 04:16 PM

No problem ukhtee. Put your request to join here: http://talk.islamicnetwork.com/showt...3388#post43388

***daniel aljughaifi*** · 09-09-2005, 10:03 PM

I used to be depressed alot when I wasn't muslim, so I remember what it is like.

We sometimes tell others that we are depressed in order that we can have someone there for us. Depression sometimes can come about when one feels alone in this world.

Allah(swt) is there when no one else is and we should rely on Him(swt) first and foremost. Do you want to speak to Allah and Him speak to you? Well you can have this happen. When you want to speak to Allah(swt) you can make salah or make du'a ect ect. When you wish to have Allah(swt) speak to you, go to the Quran and see what Allah(swt) says to you,"yes I said You".

We also have the Prophet(saws) in his words(hadith). Just read bukhari and Muslim.

Think about what He(saws) did for this Ummah. You are included in this. When Rasulullah(saws) made du'a for the Ummah do you think you were not included? If you are part of this Ummah then you are part of this du'a inshaAllah.

Think about the fact that you are a muslim and that there are billions that are not. Allah(swt) chose you to be muslim over all those people! Allahu Akbar! You are someone cause you are muslim and Allah(swt) made you that way for a reason.

Just think about it...

09-09-2005, 03:21 AM	#1
oneeightydegrees Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 24 Gender:	i'm new... need help salam im new here and i need advice on my life as a muslim b/c i think im realy messn up. i realy duno where or how to start

09-09-2005, 03:41 PM	#6
Abu Muqatil غفر الله له و لوالديه Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: UK Posts: 1,263 Gender:	Ahlan bik may Allah make your affairs easy for you... __________________ •.•°¯`•)»"O my people! Truly, this life of the world is nothing but a quick passing enjoyment, and verily, the Hereafter that is the home that will remain forever." (Ghafir 40:39)«(•°¯`•.• وفقكم الله وإيانا لكل خير و السلام عليكم و رحمة الله و بركاته

09-09-2005, 04:16 PM	#9
Catalyst اللهم اغفر لي Join Date: Dec 2004 Posts: 1,179 Gender:	No problem ukhtee. Put your request to join here: http://talk.islamicnetwork.com/showt...3388#post43388 __________________ ما تطعمت لذة العيش حتى .. صرت للبيت والكــتاب جليسا ليس شيء أعز من العــلــــم ... فما أبتغي سواه أنيسا إنما الذل في مخالطـةِ الــنـا س ... فدعهم وعش عزيزاً رئيسا

09-09-2005, 10:03 PM	#10
*daniel aljughaifi* النجدي الوهابي Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: "the land" 17:103 Posts: 536 Gender:	I used to be depressed alot when I wasn't muslim, so I remember what it is like. We sometimes tell others that we are depressed in order that we can have someone there for us. Depression sometimes can come about when one feels alone in this world. Allah(swt) is there when no one else is and we should rely on Him(swt) first and foremost. Do you want to speak to Allah and Him speak to you? Well you can have this happen. When you want to speak to Allah(swt) you can make salah or make du'a ect ect. When you wish to have Allah(swt) speak to you, go to the Quran and see what Allah(swt) says to you,"yes I said You". We also have the Prophet(saws) in his words(hadith). Just read bukhari and Muslim. Think about what He(saws) did for this Ummah. You are included in this. When Rasulullah(saws) made du'a for the Ummah do you think you were not included? If you are part of this Ummah then you are part of this du'a inshaAllah. Think about the fact that you are a muslim and that there are billions that are not. Allah(swt) chose you to be muslim over all those people! Allahu Akbar! You are someone cause you are muslim and Allah(swt) made you that way for a reason. Just think about it... __________________ "There is nothing on the face of the earth that is more in need of being imprisoned for a lenghty period of time than the tongue" Abdullah Ibn Mas'ood "The one who is in love is a slave to the one he loves" Sheikhul Islam Ibnu Taymiyyah Unite and Conquer Daniel Al-Jughaifi's Blog Last edited by daniel aljughaifi : 09-09-2005 at 10:26 PM.

09-09-2005, 03:37 AM	#2
*Prof* Administrator Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 3,037 Gender:	Wa alaikum assalaam, Well you have already taken the first step by realizing that you need help. In this section (Seeking Naseeha), you will find some threads about improving in your faith. You should also remember that you should never despair as Allah is the All-Merciful. There is always time to repent and change. Do you have any specific issues you need to talk about? Also seeing that you are a sister, perhaps one of the other sisters on this forum may be willing to email/chat with you in private if you feel more comfortable with that. I am extremely happy that you have come to this forum seeking help. I hope we can benefit you and you can benefit us. Welcome to the forums.

09-09-2005, 03:38 AM	#3
*Prof* Administrator Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 3,037 Gender:	You should also remember that there are plenty of good muslims (and Allah knows best what is in their hearts) that used to do every sin, major and minor, that you can imagine. People can change.

09-09-2005, 05:24 AM	#4
oneeightydegrees Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 24 Gender:	wasalam thanx.. u guys r prety nice so far yeh my family thinks i hav depression or something. i dont get y they say that. so at least i admit theres somethings i do need help with but i dont admit im depressed. yah i gues i have specifc issues i gota talk about but i dono where to start n stuf. im here cuz no one knows me here i gues. or its the only place i found.

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